Hey guys, how are you doing?
How has life fared with you lately?
The hustle and bustle of becoming a man
ain’t an easy job, I must confess! But with
God and diligence in fulfilling purpose, we’ll
I write this letter to you to point out some
things which you ought to know before
marriage or as you continue in that
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or
players. First concerning how you treat
ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are
emotional only few are not. Please, don’t
take advantage of that and inflict emotional
pain on them.
If you know she’s not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and
earth just to get her in bed.
If you think you’re smart, your smartness
cannot prevent the nemesis or daring
consequences that would one day catch up
It’s better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure
than to face its agony and regrets in the
What are you doing about your life and
future? I know it’s trendy to go clubbing
and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See,
life doesn’t go on a stretch forever and every
time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven’t define
your life or you’re still depending on friends,
family or relatives, you need to work on
Where do you put God in your life? Consider
God in the time of your youth before it’s too
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you
cannot dance to the devil’s music, it’s better
you start learning God’s steps.
Hear this guys, love isn’t s*x! Don’t tell a lady
to prove her love to you because you want
to have a ‘taste’ of her. I know everyone is
going haywire with premarital s*x but you
can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will
make you vulnerable to STDs and some
problems ‘rubber’ cannot prevent.
It doesn’t matter if she calls you names if
you choose to abstain, or you become an
object of mockery amongst your friends, run
for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter.
Don’t give your strength to strange women,
preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life?
That very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will
make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track
to attain it’s fulfillment before you think of
going into a relationship. It’s not difficult, it
would only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are
they contributing positively to your life or
they are emptying you of virtues and
It’s not a must you hang out with friends if
you do not benefit from them. You can
stand alone with God and make lasting
impact than to keep dozens of friends with
no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to
the wall. There is a button of patience to
press to control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read
good books to acquire knowledge and skill.
Get intimate with God so that your wife
wouldn’t become a victim of false prophets
or you become a spiritual babe in handling
matters of life at the homefront.
My guy, you’re going to be a father someday.
Don’t do the things you wouldn’t be proud
of your son to emulate or would want
anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn’t want to leave a bad legacy
for your unborn children, don’t tread the
I’d have love to tell you more but I believe
you know the importance of life and time
and I’m constrained due to space.
Don’t waste away chasing every Tom, d**k
and Harry for s*x. Conserve your energies
and channel it into a more productive cause
I hope the few wise ones would treasure
this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as
you make amends in areas where necessary
Hey guys, how are you doing?